1 00:00:09,000 --> 00:00:10,840 Previously, on It's Not Like That... 2 00:00:10,920 --> 00:00:12,670 My wife's dead. 3 00:00:12,760 --> 00:00:15,340 How can everything just keep on going on without her? 4 00:00:15,430 --> 00:00:17,390 Is this the year that goes down as, like, 5 00:00:17,470 --> 00:00:20,060 Mom and Dad got divorced and ruined our lives? 6 00:00:20,140 --> 00:00:22,350 The longer you stay somewhere temporary, 7 00:00:22,430 --> 00:00:24,390 you know, you're giving them false hope. 8 00:00:25,770 --> 00:00:29,360 When we kissed, I hadn't felt that alive in a long time. 9 00:00:29,440 --> 00:00:30,690 But it was a mistake. 10 00:00:30,780 --> 00:00:33,990 I don't know if what happened between us was because I'm lonely 11 00:00:34,070 --> 00:00:36,110 or because you were just so comfortable. 12 00:00:36,200 --> 00:00:39,330 We're so... comfortable. 13 00:00:39,410 --> 00:00:40,830 We can't. 14 00:00:40,910 --> 00:00:43,160 - That's my new client. - You're repping DJs now? 15 00:00:43,250 --> 00:00:45,710 Why don't you go over there and pin one of them? 16 00:01:19,030 --> 00:01:21,910 Girls! Stay where we can see you, please. 17 00:01:24,870 --> 00:01:26,080 This is looking good. 18 00:01:28,040 --> 00:01:30,670 You know, might be time to replace this thing. 19 00:01:30,750 --> 00:01:31,960 Don't you dare. 20 00:01:32,050 --> 00:01:34,050 I like it just the way it is. 21 00:01:34,130 --> 00:01:36,800 This sign? You know, I dug the holes with Dad, 22 00:01:36,880 --> 00:01:38,470 back when we moved in. 23 00:01:38,550 --> 00:01:41,260 It's the backdrop for all my favorite family photos. 24 00:01:41,350 --> 00:01:42,260 Mm-hmm. 25 00:01:42,350 --> 00:01:44,640 - Including our wedding. - Okay, okay. 26 00:01:44,730 --> 00:01:46,730 Okay. 27 00:01:48,440 --> 00:01:51,190 - I love everything about this old church. - Yeah? 28 00:01:51,270 --> 00:01:53,280 - Yeah, especially you. - Oh. 29 00:01:53,360 --> 00:01:54,610 Thank you. 30 00:01:57,150 --> 00:02:02,240 I've been thinking, actually, what if we partnered with other community leaders? 31 00:02:02,330 --> 00:02:05,330 Like the Temple, the Islamic Center. 32 00:02:05,410 --> 00:02:07,620 We could make this sort of an interfaith rummage sale. 33 00:02:07,710 --> 00:02:09,500 We'd definitely get more donations. 34 00:02:09,580 --> 00:02:12,420 "What unites us is stronger than what divides us." 35 00:02:12,500 --> 00:02:14,170 That's what Dad always said. 36 00:02:14,250 --> 00:02:16,670 I am all for channeling Pastor Lucas. 37 00:02:16,760 --> 00:02:19,890 And I think you just added a lot more work for us. 38 00:02:19,970 --> 00:02:21,640 Oh. 39 00:02:21,720 --> 00:02:24,180 - That's why we have two daughters. - Uh-huh. 40 00:02:24,970 --> 00:02:28,980 Just love seeing all these things find new homes, new life, you know, 41 00:02:29,060 --> 00:02:31,690 instead of sitting around in boxes in garages. 42 00:02:33,900 --> 00:02:34,980 Makes me so happy. 43 00:02:35,900 --> 00:02:37,110 I can see that. 44 00:02:48,790 --> 00:02:50,210 Oh, no, don't open that! 45 00:02:51,670 --> 00:02:53,590 I was just looking for my duffel. 46 00:02:53,670 --> 00:02:56,550 It's not in the junk closet. I took it out. 47 00:02:56,630 --> 00:02:57,840 Look under your bed. 48 00:02:59,090 --> 00:03:01,010 Yeah, Dad, I get it. 49 00:03:01,090 --> 00:03:03,010 It's an apartment building with amenities. 50 00:03:03,100 --> 00:03:06,060 It's not an apartment building, it's a townhome, okay. 51 00:03:06,140 --> 00:03:07,560 Where's Case? I want her to see as well. 52 00:03:07,640 --> 00:03:08,890 - Look, look, look. - Hi. 53 00:03:08,980 --> 00:03:10,890 It comes with a pool. 54 00:03:10,980 --> 00:03:13,810 Anytime you guys wanna swim, okay, you can... 55 00:03:13,900 --> 00:03:17,110 - Uh, Dad, you cut out. - It's on his end, Casey. 56 00:03:17,190 --> 00:03:20,280 - They'll see you after school, okay. - See you, guys. I love you. 57 00:03:20,360 --> 00:03:22,950 - Yeah, I'm not staying there. - Uh, yeah, same. 58 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:27,740 I want you guys to go through Mom's stuff with me and see what we can give away. 59 00:03:27,830 --> 00:03:30,620 So, you wanna get rid of everything? Just all of Mom's stuff? 60 00:03:30,710 --> 00:03:32,210 No, of course not. That's not what I mean. 61 00:03:32,290 --> 00:03:33,750 I just thought the rummage sale is this week, 62 00:03:33,830 --> 00:03:36,420 this was important to your mom, I thought we could honor that. 63 00:03:36,500 --> 00:03:37,750 Well, what about what I want? 64 00:03:37,840 --> 00:03:41,130 That is why we're gonna take our time and go through everything. 65 00:03:41,220 --> 00:03:42,680 See what we wanna donate, what we wanna keep. 66 00:03:42,760 --> 00:03:44,600 But it's not the stuff that matters. 67 00:03:44,680 --> 00:03:46,890 Uh, yeah, Dad, the stuff matters. 68 00:03:46,970 --> 00:03:51,020 - We're not just gonna erase Mom. - Penelope, no one's erasing Mom here. 69 00:03:51,890 --> 00:03:54,100 You're not getting rid of Mom's car, right? 70 00:03:54,190 --> 00:03:57,110 - Well, actually, your Mom and I thought... - No, no! 71 00:03:57,190 --> 00:04:01,200 Okay, okay, okay. Let's table the car for a moment. 72 00:04:01,280 --> 00:04:02,360 He has no Wi-Fi. 73 00:04:02,450 --> 00:04:05,200 - He has Wi-Fi. - Okay, fine, he has crappy Wi-Fi. 74 00:04:05,280 --> 00:04:06,870 All my homework's on Google Classroom. 75 00:04:06,950 --> 00:04:09,660 Oh, and now it's all about getting your homework done? 76 00:04:09,750 --> 00:04:12,040 Okay. Guys, you are going to your dad's. 77 00:04:12,120 --> 00:04:13,830 Both of you, end of story. 78 00:04:13,920 --> 00:04:16,710 I know, I know that this is gonna be hard, okay, 79 00:04:16,790 --> 00:04:19,670 but your mom believed, we believe, in helping others when we can, 80 00:04:19,760 --> 00:04:23,630 so, let's just, let's take our time and get things organized, okay. 81 00:04:23,720 --> 00:04:25,340 Why? Why are we the ones that have to move? 82 00:04:25,430 --> 00:04:26,720 You guys are the ones that got divorced. 83 00:04:26,800 --> 00:04:28,680 Why don't you just sell the whole house while you're at it? 84 00:04:28,760 --> 00:04:29,970 Does he even have a table? 85 00:04:30,060 --> 00:04:31,730 It would've been nice to get a little heads-up, Dad. 86 00:04:31,810 --> 00:04:33,600 - And we are not sharing a room. - I don't wanna move. 87 00:04:33,690 --> 00:04:34,690 She's being sarcastic. 88 00:04:34,770 --> 00:04:38,020 - Did anyone think this through? - This is so unfair. 89 00:04:44,450 --> 00:04:46,530 It's the right thing. I know that. 90 00:04:46,620 --> 00:04:50,200 I mean, we're gonna have to go through her stuff sooner or later. 91 00:04:51,040 --> 00:04:52,450 The truth is, 92 00:04:53,160 --> 00:04:54,540 I'm ready. 93 00:04:54,620 --> 00:04:55,920 I need it. 94 00:04:56,000 --> 00:04:57,960 But it's hard for them, you know. 95 00:04:58,040 --> 00:05:02,260 I knew Jenny was sick before they did. I've had more time to grieve. 96 00:05:02,340 --> 00:05:04,380 But I think it'll be good for them. 97 00:05:05,430 --> 00:05:07,010 But I feel terrible. They... 98 00:05:07,850 --> 00:05:09,970 They said I was trying to erase her. 99 00:05:10,560 --> 00:05:11,890 That's impossible. 100 00:05:14,140 --> 00:05:16,690 For what it's worth, I feel terrible today, 101 00:05:16,770 --> 00:05:20,150 because I am committing the horrendous crime 102 00:05:20,230 --> 00:05:23,650 of forcing my children to spend time with their father, 103 00:05:23,740 --> 00:05:24,860 who loves them. 104 00:05:25,950 --> 00:05:29,950 Although, feeling terrible is, basically, my preset these days. 105 00:05:30,030 --> 00:05:31,790 Why are you blaming yourself? 106 00:05:31,870 --> 00:05:33,700 Maybe Casey has a point. 107 00:05:34,500 --> 00:05:36,580 They didn't get divorced, we did. 108 00:05:36,670 --> 00:05:40,130 At some point, you're gonna have to cut yourself some slack. 109 00:05:40,210 --> 00:05:43,090 Especially because you know your kids aren't going to. 110 00:05:43,170 --> 00:05:45,300 It's kinda their job to make us feel guilty. 111 00:05:45,380 --> 00:05:49,050 Yeah. We don't have anything to feel guilty about. 112 00:05:52,510 --> 00:05:53,350 Right? 113 00:05:55,020 --> 00:05:55,850 Right. 114 00:06:06,860 --> 00:06:10,160 - Hey. Is it okay if I s-sit? - Hey. 115 00:06:10,240 --> 00:06:11,240 You're good. 116 00:06:17,370 --> 00:06:21,170 So, I think I might have something for you to write about. 117 00:06:22,210 --> 00:06:23,170 Oh, yeah? 118 00:06:23,750 --> 00:06:25,050 It's about us. 119 00:06:25,130 --> 00:06:26,970 Well, well, our parents. 120 00:06:27,670 --> 00:06:28,760 Oh, okay. 121 00:06:30,930 --> 00:06:32,260 What? Say it. 122 00:06:34,100 --> 00:06:36,390 I think my mom and your dad hooked up. 123 00:06:36,480 --> 00:06:37,940 - What? - Or are hooking up. 124 00:06:38,020 --> 00:06:40,190 - No, they're just friends. - I don't think so. 125 00:06:40,270 --> 00:06:41,400 - No. - I-I overheard them 126 00:06:41,480 --> 00:06:44,320 and they were talking about kissing and, like, how amazing it was, 127 00:06:44,400 --> 00:06:46,740 - and... - No, that makes zero sense. 128 00:06:46,820 --> 00:06:50,660 My dad isn't... He's not ready to... You're wrong. 129 00:06:51,700 --> 00:06:53,830 I'm just telling you what I heard. 130 00:06:53,910 --> 00:06:56,080 Are you sure they were even talking about each other? 131 00:06:56,160 --> 00:06:58,750 - Did you seem them actually do anything? - I... 132 00:06:58,830 --> 00:07:00,170 - Did you see them... - No. 133 00:07:00,250 --> 00:07:01,330 So you don't know. 134 00:07:02,710 --> 00:07:05,460 I'm sorry. My bad. I shouldn't have said anything. 135 00:07:13,640 --> 00:07:15,760 Are you doing anything this weekend? 136 00:07:16,850 --> 00:07:17,720 Me? 137 00:07:19,020 --> 00:07:22,400 Oh, you know I was just messing with you at the Halidom. 138 00:07:22,480 --> 00:07:25,070 That's kind of what we do. It's not personal. 139 00:07:25,650 --> 00:07:26,820 Yeah, I know. 140 00:07:28,740 --> 00:07:32,910 Um, well... This weekend's gonna literally suck. 141 00:07:32,990 --> 00:07:37,080 We're going to our dad's new apartment for the first time, so, yeah. 142 00:07:37,160 --> 00:07:39,290 - Yay, divorce. - Where? 143 00:07:39,830 --> 00:07:42,170 Uh, the condo complex on Westin. 144 00:07:43,040 --> 00:07:45,880 Oh, yeah, transition townhomes. 145 00:07:45,960 --> 00:07:47,250 What? 146 00:07:47,340 --> 00:07:48,800 My dad started there, too. 147 00:07:48,880 --> 00:07:51,220 That place is, like, divorced dad central. 148 00:07:52,760 --> 00:07:55,180 My parents split when I was six. 149 00:07:55,970 --> 00:07:57,760 It was ugly. 150 00:07:58,850 --> 00:07:59,810 It still is. 151 00:08:00,680 --> 00:08:02,690 I'm, like, an expert on divorce. 152 00:08:02,770 --> 00:08:06,190 Right now, you just need to binge some super depressing reality TV 153 00:08:06,270 --> 00:08:10,110 about people's lives who suck even more. You'll feel so much better. 154 00:08:10,190 --> 00:08:14,240 And the best part is cashing in on their guilt. 155 00:08:15,030 --> 00:08:18,410 - You can get whatever you want. - Seriously? 156 00:08:18,990 --> 00:08:19,950 Pretty much. 157 00:08:22,290 --> 00:08:25,210 Hey, wait, Dakota. Why are you talking to me? 158 00:08:26,880 --> 00:08:27,960 You were here. 159 00:08:56,990 --> 00:08:59,620 Please tell me you bailed on us last night 160 00:08:59,700 --> 00:09:01,290 because you were on a hot date with Cuppa Joe? 161 00:09:01,370 --> 00:09:02,960 Oh, I wish. 162 00:09:03,040 --> 00:09:06,670 No, uh, I finally cracked open a Southern Living, 163 00:09:06,750 --> 00:09:08,880 and then I immediately fell asleep. 164 00:09:08,960 --> 00:09:11,510 And his name is Joe. Just Joe. 165 00:09:11,590 --> 00:09:12,760 Not that it matters. 166 00:09:12,840 --> 00:09:15,050 He hasn't responded to any of my texts. 167 00:09:15,130 --> 00:09:16,010 Texts? 168 00:09:16,090 --> 00:09:17,430 How many have you sent? 169 00:09:17,510 --> 00:09:20,640 - I should've kissed him. I blew it. - No. No. 170 00:09:20,720 --> 00:09:23,430 No, I mean, we genuinely had a great time. 171 00:09:23,520 --> 00:09:27,350 Like, I don't get it. What is the point of all of the DMing and the texting? 172 00:09:27,440 --> 00:09:30,400 There isn't one. Swipe right, swipe left, that's it. 173 00:09:30,480 --> 00:09:33,320 He ghosted you. It's a rite of passage. 174 00:09:33,400 --> 00:09:35,360 - Moving on. - I don't wanna move on. 175 00:09:35,450 --> 00:09:36,860 I liked him. 176 00:09:36,950 --> 00:09:39,280 I swiped so many to get to him. 177 00:09:39,370 --> 00:09:41,120 Well, men love to ghost. 178 00:09:41,200 --> 00:09:43,450 You're making me feel so much better. 179 00:09:43,540 --> 00:09:46,210 Hey. Sorry, I'm a little early. 180 00:09:46,290 --> 00:09:47,290 It's fine. 181 00:09:47,370 --> 00:09:49,210 - Hi, David. - How you doing? 182 00:09:50,590 --> 00:09:54,380 Okay, so, Claire Lesley, our favorite shared client, 183 00:09:54,460 --> 00:09:56,720 super psyched about your promo materials. 184 00:09:56,800 --> 00:09:57,970 - Good. - Well done. 185 00:09:58,050 --> 00:09:59,850 We're just talking about extending her tour, 186 00:09:59,930 --> 00:10:02,100 - adding a spring leg across... - Wait, wait, uh, 187 00:10:02,180 --> 00:10:04,640 can we talk about family schedule first? 188 00:10:04,730 --> 00:10:06,140 Yeah, sure, what's up? 189 00:10:06,230 --> 00:10:10,190 Um, the kids, they don't wanna spend the weekend at your new place. 190 00:10:10,270 --> 00:10:13,150 - Okay, tough, they don't have a choice. - Okay, well, I get that, 191 00:10:13,230 --> 00:10:16,360 but, you know, we did always say that we wanted them to have autonomy. 192 00:10:16,450 --> 00:10:18,740 - To make up their own minds about... - Okay, Lori, 193 00:10:18,820 --> 00:10:20,990 I'm their father, right? That's where I live. 194 00:10:21,070 --> 00:10:23,990 - In the place that you told me to get. - Okay, I... 195 00:10:28,960 --> 00:10:30,790 You guys have a text chain without me? 196 00:10:30,880 --> 00:10:33,000 You can have a text chain without me. 197 00:10:38,300 --> 00:10:40,930 Look, I know this sucks. 198 00:10:41,010 --> 00:10:43,010 No, actually, you don't. Okay? You don't. 199 00:10:43,100 --> 00:10:44,680 You're not the one in "transition townhomes." 200 00:10:44,770 --> 00:10:48,690 Casey's words, not mine. I... I'm sorry. 201 00:10:48,770 --> 00:10:50,810 I feel like I'm trying everything here. 202 00:10:50,900 --> 00:10:52,770 I'm trying everything and nothing is getting through to them. 203 00:10:52,860 --> 00:10:53,980 Like, I... 204 00:10:57,780 --> 00:11:00,910 I think Casey's wrestling has something to do with you. 205 00:11:00,990 --> 00:11:01,820 Yeah. 206 00:11:02,990 --> 00:11:06,160 It's just, all their stuff is at home. 207 00:11:06,250 --> 00:11:08,160 You know, their routines, like, 208 00:11:08,250 --> 00:11:10,080 they wanna sleep in their own beds. 209 00:11:12,290 --> 00:11:13,540 Okay, how about this... 210 00:11:14,920 --> 00:11:17,090 Why don't you stay at the house this weekend, 211 00:11:17,170 --> 00:11:18,970 and the kids can stay home with you? 212 00:11:19,760 --> 00:11:23,510 You know, that way you can get quality time with them, 213 00:11:23,600 --> 00:11:26,560 they'll be comfortable, and I'll be out of the way. 214 00:11:27,140 --> 00:11:30,390 - Doesn't that defeat the whole purpose? - No, it's, it's a thing. 215 00:11:30,480 --> 00:11:32,520 It's called "birdnesting." 216 00:11:32,600 --> 00:11:34,940 Malcolm sent me an article about it. 217 00:11:35,020 --> 00:11:38,610 Like, the kids stay in one place, and the parents move around. 218 00:11:39,320 --> 00:11:41,240 It's big in Scandinavia. 219 00:11:41,320 --> 00:11:44,530 Aren't they supposed to be the happiest people on earth? 220 00:11:46,290 --> 00:11:47,240 I guess so. 221 00:11:48,830 --> 00:11:50,210 Okay, where are you gonna go? 222 00:11:50,290 --> 00:11:55,750 Well, I hear there is a beautiful three-bedroom in transition townhomes. 223 00:11:56,340 --> 00:11:58,010 - I do love a pool. - Mm-hmm. 224 00:12:01,470 --> 00:12:04,390 Hey. Look who's here. Did you come to help out? 225 00:12:04,470 --> 00:12:06,260 Oh, no, I was just... 226 00:12:06,760 --> 00:12:08,850 Can I talk to you for a second? 227 00:12:08,930 --> 00:12:09,890 Sure. 228 00:12:13,100 --> 00:12:14,100 Are you... 229 00:12:15,230 --> 00:12:16,230 Why now? 230 00:12:16,320 --> 00:12:18,440 With donating Mom's stuff. 231 00:12:19,230 --> 00:12:21,820 Uh, well, this is why. The rummage sale. 232 00:12:21,900 --> 00:12:23,950 There's no other reason? 233 00:12:25,990 --> 00:12:26,910 Are you... 234 00:12:27,830 --> 00:12:29,120 seeing someone? 235 00:12:29,870 --> 00:12:32,000 No. I'm not. 236 00:12:32,080 --> 00:12:35,330 This rummage sale was something your mom helped organize every year. 237 00:12:35,420 --> 00:12:37,420 - That's what this is. - Okay. 238 00:12:38,300 --> 00:12:40,920 But I'm not saying that I haven't thought about 239 00:12:41,010 --> 00:12:44,550 what it would be like to meet someone new. Does that upset you? 240 00:12:44,640 --> 00:12:47,550 - I... I don't... - Listen, Flora, 241 00:12:47,640 --> 00:12:50,930 when I... when I counsel folks about grief, 242 00:12:51,520 --> 00:12:54,900 I tell them that there is no timeline, there is no right or wrong, 243 00:12:54,980 --> 00:12:56,230 it's just a journey. 244 00:12:56,310 --> 00:12:57,980 So, at some point, 245 00:12:58,860 --> 00:13:00,690 I will put myself out there again. 246 00:13:01,190 --> 00:13:03,990 But that'll be for me, okay. I'm not gonna give you the play-by-play. 247 00:13:04,070 --> 00:13:06,530 Good. Good. Please don't. 248 00:13:06,620 --> 00:13:09,870 I promise I will talk to you guys if I ever get serious about someone, okay? 249 00:13:09,950 --> 00:13:12,120 - Okay. Okay. - Okay. Sorry, sorry. 250 00:13:12,200 --> 00:13:15,370 Listen, um, about Mom's car, that's totally up to you. 251 00:13:15,460 --> 00:13:18,710 Think about what you wanna do, whether you wanna donate it, keep it. 252 00:13:18,790 --> 00:13:20,630 It's your call. I trust your judgment. 253 00:13:24,760 --> 00:13:26,640 Surprise! 254 00:13:27,590 --> 00:13:29,470 Uh, what's going on? Where's Mom? 255 00:13:29,560 --> 00:13:31,390 She's at my place. I'm here for the weekend. 256 00:13:31,970 --> 00:13:32,930 Why? 257 00:13:33,020 --> 00:13:34,520 It's called "birdnesting." 258 00:13:35,020 --> 00:13:36,190 Or something. 259 00:13:36,270 --> 00:13:39,570 This way you guys don't have to come to me, I come to you. Right? 260 00:13:39,650 --> 00:13:40,900 We get to spend the weekend together. 261 00:13:40,980 --> 00:13:41,980 So, we packed for nothing. 262 00:13:42,070 --> 00:13:43,740 Now, you get to unpack for me. 263 00:13:46,030 --> 00:13:48,320 - I'm gonna hit the drums. - I have homework. 264 00:13:48,410 --> 00:13:52,240 Uh, okay, um, yeah, that's cool. Homework. 265 00:13:52,330 --> 00:13:55,370 Uh, guys, hey, I'm here all weekend, okay. 266 00:14:28,110 --> 00:14:30,240 Dude. Air mattresses? 267 00:14:42,170 --> 00:14:44,050 Oh. Look at you go. 268 00:15:00,520 --> 00:15:02,360 Did you take Mom's jewelry box? 269 00:15:02,440 --> 00:15:04,610 - The one with the ivory tree on it? - No. 270 00:15:04,690 --> 00:15:07,490 Okay, well, I looked everywhere and you knew I wanted it. 271 00:15:07,570 --> 00:15:09,450 Search my side, I don't have it. 272 00:15:09,530 --> 00:15:10,610 Fine. 273 00:15:10,700 --> 00:15:11,950 Hey. Whoa. 274 00:15:12,950 --> 00:15:14,870 You don't trust me? I was kidding. 275 00:15:14,950 --> 00:15:18,040 - Could you be any messier, Flora? - Yeah, I could try. 276 00:15:26,000 --> 00:15:27,880 Are you seriously not going to help me? 277 00:15:27,970 --> 00:15:31,130 Justin is, like, a machine down there, going through Mom's stuff. 278 00:15:31,220 --> 00:15:32,680 I'm just trying to save what I can. 279 00:15:32,760 --> 00:15:35,100 He can get rid of all of it, for all I care. 280 00:15:35,180 --> 00:15:37,680 - You don't really mean that? - Yeah, I do. 281 00:15:37,770 --> 00:15:41,350 I don't wanna go through her things. I'm already dealing with her car. 282 00:15:41,440 --> 00:15:43,560 Poor Flora, she has to deal with the car. 283 00:15:43,650 --> 00:15:46,230 Hey! I feel really guilty about the car now. 284 00:15:46,320 --> 00:15:48,320 Dad says that it's all up to me. 285 00:15:49,400 --> 00:15:51,450 "I trust your judgment." 286 00:15:51,530 --> 00:15:53,660 Yeah. And then he gives me that look. 287 00:15:54,700 --> 00:15:56,490 Mm-hmm. I hate that look. 288 00:15:57,370 --> 00:15:59,660 Why can't he just yell, like normal parents? 289 00:15:59,750 --> 00:16:01,620 I don't know. 290 00:16:03,500 --> 00:16:04,380 Ooh. 291 00:16:05,630 --> 00:16:07,500 I don't think anyone's gonna buy this. 292 00:16:08,050 --> 00:16:10,970 Oh, I don't know. Kids love clothes with holes in them. 293 00:16:11,050 --> 00:16:14,050 True. They love whatever you tell them not to love 294 00:16:14,140 --> 00:16:16,140 and do whatever you tell them not to do. 295 00:16:16,220 --> 00:16:19,180 Yeah, or don't do what you, oh so carefully, tell them to do. 296 00:16:19,270 --> 00:16:21,890 Like make donations to the rummage sale. 297 00:16:21,980 --> 00:16:24,100 - Oh, Carlin coming in hot. - Already? 298 00:16:24,190 --> 00:16:27,730 Um, we're still setting up, Mr. Carlin. 299 00:16:27,820 --> 00:16:29,820 We don't need looky-loos while we do our work. 300 00:16:29,900 --> 00:16:31,360 Hey, it's a free country, isn't it? 301 00:16:31,450 --> 00:16:32,820 I know you like your deals, 302 00:16:32,910 --> 00:16:35,990 but you're not gonna get a better one just because you're here a day early. 303 00:16:36,070 --> 00:16:40,120 Ooh. One buck for the belt buckle. 304 00:16:41,080 --> 00:16:44,080 - Uh, can you please come back tomorrow? - All right, fine. 305 00:16:44,630 --> 00:16:46,840 Buck and a quarter, but that's my final offer. 306 00:16:46,920 --> 00:16:48,090 No. 307 00:16:48,170 --> 00:16:49,210 No? 308 00:16:49,300 --> 00:16:51,090 That's right, no. Not for sale. 309 00:16:51,170 --> 00:16:53,760 - But it was... - Come back tomorrow. Please. 310 00:16:55,050 --> 00:16:58,140 - It was in the box. - Tomorrow! Please. Please! 311 00:16:59,470 --> 00:17:02,730 It's okay, Malcolm, just calm down. 312 00:17:02,810 --> 00:17:05,100 I was, uh, I was worried about the kids. 313 00:17:05,190 --> 00:17:07,440 - Sorry, I didn't mean to... - No, please, 314 00:17:07,520 --> 00:17:10,030 this is going to be hard this year. 315 00:17:10,110 --> 00:17:12,360 That's from Pastor Malcolm's rodeo days. 316 00:17:12,440 --> 00:17:13,990 Lot of sentimental value. 317 00:17:16,450 --> 00:17:17,910 - Sorry. - You'll be fine. You'll be fine. 318 00:17:19,990 --> 00:17:20,830 Mm. 319 00:17:22,450 --> 00:17:25,790 Hey. Thought I'd go old-school today. 320 00:17:29,170 --> 00:17:31,670 What? You guys love this. 321 00:17:32,260 --> 00:17:33,550 Or you do. 322 00:17:33,630 --> 00:17:35,550 I-I do. Yeah, it's fun. 323 00:17:36,130 --> 00:17:38,430 All right, Case, come on, you get the plantains, 324 00:17:38,510 --> 00:17:41,180 I got the rice and beans, the meat'll be ready in about an hour. 325 00:17:41,270 --> 00:17:44,520 Uh, yeah, I'm not really a red meat person anymore. 326 00:17:54,070 --> 00:17:56,200 But this is good, Dad. Thanks. 327 00:18:24,890 --> 00:18:26,190 Hey. 328 00:18:26,270 --> 00:18:27,640 New to the building? 329 00:18:29,730 --> 00:18:30,770 Larry Talia. 330 00:18:34,900 --> 00:18:35,740 And you are? 331 00:18:38,320 --> 00:18:39,160 Lori. 332 00:18:40,240 --> 00:18:42,160 Larry and Lori? Come on. 333 00:18:42,780 --> 00:18:45,200 - What are the odds? - Yeah. 334 00:18:46,330 --> 00:18:49,420 So, uh, there's a great new sushi spot that just opened. 335 00:18:49,500 --> 00:18:51,000 If you're free for dinner, I'd love to take you. 336 00:18:51,080 --> 00:18:55,380 Larry, to be honest, I'm just here for a little me time. 337 00:18:55,460 --> 00:18:57,800 - So... - Right. 338 00:19:02,510 --> 00:19:04,220 - Hey, Lar. - Mike. 339 00:19:04,850 --> 00:19:06,100 - Pete. - Hey. 340 00:19:06,180 --> 00:19:07,520 Lori, Mike, Pete. 341 00:19:08,230 --> 00:19:11,860 Okay. I... Um... 342 00:19:22,950 --> 00:19:24,280 What's he doing down there? 343 00:19:26,750 --> 00:19:28,750 Hey, guys. Hey. 344 00:19:28,830 --> 00:19:30,370 Come on, I got a great idea. 345 00:19:31,040 --> 00:19:33,880 Come on. Let's go. You guys are gonna love this. Come on. 346 00:20:28,270 --> 00:20:30,180 Ooh. Ooh. 347 00:20:30,770 --> 00:20:33,060 What? No. 348 00:20:34,060 --> 00:20:34,900 What? 349 00:20:36,270 --> 00:20:37,480 Hello. 350 00:20:40,690 --> 00:20:41,820 Hey, Lori. 351 00:20:41,900 --> 00:20:44,320 - Malcolm. - What's wrong? 352 00:20:44,410 --> 00:20:47,660 I don't know. I'm naked in my ex-husband's bed, freaking out. 353 00:20:48,990 --> 00:20:50,700 That didn't... 354 00:20:51,410 --> 00:20:52,580 Okay. 355 00:20:52,660 --> 00:20:55,000 I just forgot my pajamas. 356 00:20:55,080 --> 00:20:57,090 Also, I don't know what I'm doing here. 357 00:20:57,170 --> 00:20:58,380 Can you come over? 358 00:20:58,460 --> 00:21:00,260 Sure, uh, I'm on my way. 359 00:21:01,880 --> 00:21:05,760 - Virginia, can you finish up without me? - Of course. Everything all right? 360 00:21:06,390 --> 00:21:08,810 - Just a congregate in crisis. - Oh. 361 00:21:10,310 --> 00:21:13,190 Okay, so you wanna come in here, now hook your arm under his, right, 362 00:21:13,270 --> 00:21:15,150 that's an arm bar. Casey. 363 00:21:15,230 --> 00:21:17,020 Hello? Come on, girl, pay attention. 364 00:21:17,110 --> 00:21:19,480 Two generations of Soto wrestlers teaching you here. 365 00:21:19,570 --> 00:21:21,280 - It's in your blood, girl. Right? - Yep. Yep. 366 00:21:21,360 --> 00:21:22,190 - Come on. - Sorry. 367 00:21:22,280 --> 00:21:25,200 So this is when you have the leverage to pin his arm back, like... 368 00:21:25,780 --> 00:21:29,200 Merritt, come on, man, we're just demonstrating. 369 00:21:30,120 --> 00:21:32,160 Like that. Right? 370 00:21:32,250 --> 00:21:34,290 Like this. Then you have the advantage. 371 00:21:34,370 --> 00:21:35,790 Right? 'Cause you got him trapped. 372 00:21:35,870 --> 00:21:37,580 That's when you wanna roll him on his back. 373 00:21:37,670 --> 00:21:39,420 - Or her. - Or her, of course. Or her. 374 00:21:40,500 --> 00:21:42,420 Merritt. Come on, man, we're just teaching your sister how to... 375 00:21:42,510 --> 00:21:44,170 That's when you swivel out your hips, 376 00:21:44,260 --> 00:21:45,510 create a new base... 377 00:21:46,340 --> 00:21:47,890 That's called a reverse. 378 00:21:48,760 --> 00:21:51,310 This is called a cross-face cradle. 379 00:21:55,850 --> 00:21:57,270 Is this what we're doing? 380 00:21:57,350 --> 00:21:58,610 Very tough to escape. 381 00:21:58,690 --> 00:22:00,440 Okay, yeah, I get it. 382 00:22:00,520 --> 00:22:02,530 Okay. All right. All right, Mer. 383 00:22:03,030 --> 00:22:04,150 Merritt, stop! 384 00:22:04,240 --> 00:22:06,490 - Merritt! - Merritt, come on, man. I'm tapping out. 385 00:22:06,570 --> 00:22:07,870 Stop! Merritt! 386 00:22:16,580 --> 00:22:17,920 What is the matter with you? 387 00:22:18,000 --> 00:22:19,590 We're just trying to have some fun here, Merritt. 388 00:22:19,670 --> 00:22:20,590 Fun? 389 00:22:21,170 --> 00:22:23,920 Yeah, Dad, this is, this is so much fun. 390 00:22:26,090 --> 00:22:28,970 - Buddy, I'm trying my best here. - Your best? 391 00:22:29,050 --> 00:22:31,470 This is your best? 392 00:22:31,560 --> 00:22:33,430 It's more, like, desperate. 393 00:22:35,980 --> 00:22:37,640 Son, what do you want me to do? 394 00:22:38,310 --> 00:22:39,940 - What do you want me to do? - Dad, 395 00:22:40,020 --> 00:22:41,900 you can't just come here and play house 396 00:22:41,980 --> 00:22:43,940 like you're not the reason all of this happened. 397 00:22:44,030 --> 00:22:45,150 You did this. 398 00:22:45,240 --> 00:22:46,110 To us. 399 00:22:46,200 --> 00:22:47,530 Because you're selfish. 400 00:22:48,030 --> 00:22:49,200 Did you know Mom's... 401 00:22:51,120 --> 00:22:52,120 Mom what? 402 00:22:54,120 --> 00:22:55,700 You don't belong here anymore. 403 00:22:59,370 --> 00:23:00,210 Merritt. 404 00:23:12,350 --> 00:23:14,520 - Thanks for coming over. - Of course. 405 00:23:14,600 --> 00:23:16,680 - You okay? - No. 406 00:23:16,770 --> 00:23:19,770 Just being here, it's like... 407 00:23:19,850 --> 00:23:21,560 He's got all these new clothes, 408 00:23:21,650 --> 00:23:24,070 and, like, he wears body spray now? 409 00:23:24,150 --> 00:23:26,360 - Mm. - It's just this place. 410 00:23:26,440 --> 00:23:30,360 It is so empty and soulless. 411 00:23:30,450 --> 00:23:31,620 Blah. 412 00:23:32,530 --> 00:23:35,290 I mean, the TV and surround sound are working. 413 00:23:35,370 --> 00:23:37,250 Of course he set those up first, 414 00:23:37,330 --> 00:23:39,330 but I don't know... 415 00:23:39,920 --> 00:23:42,420 I look at this place, and I... 416 00:23:42,500 --> 00:23:44,750 A part of me is so sad. 417 00:23:45,630 --> 00:23:48,720 But then, part of me is jealous. 418 00:23:49,470 --> 00:23:51,430 He gets to start over. 419 00:23:51,510 --> 00:23:54,760 This place is literally a blank slate. 420 00:23:56,810 --> 00:23:57,770 He can... 421 00:23:58,680 --> 00:24:01,020 totally reinvent himself, and I... 422 00:24:02,020 --> 00:24:03,020 I get that. 423 00:24:03,940 --> 00:24:05,650 I'd love to do that. 424 00:24:06,730 --> 00:24:07,820 So, what happened? 425 00:24:08,610 --> 00:24:10,320 I don't know. 426 00:24:12,820 --> 00:24:15,410 I got into bed early with my magazines, 427 00:24:15,490 --> 00:24:17,580 which I haven't had any time to read. 428 00:24:19,870 --> 00:24:21,960 - But I was wearing his shirt. - Mm. 429 00:24:22,040 --> 00:24:23,460 And I just... 430 00:24:27,710 --> 00:24:28,630 Yeah. 431 00:24:29,720 --> 00:24:32,180 - What's in the bag? - Oh. 432 00:24:32,260 --> 00:24:34,640 Pajamas. Uh, they should fit you, too. 433 00:24:36,180 --> 00:24:37,640 They're Flora rejects. 434 00:24:37,720 --> 00:24:40,980 Apparently, I missed the window on her Phoebe Bridgers phase. 435 00:24:43,270 --> 00:24:45,270 Kinda with you on this place being sad. 436 00:24:45,980 --> 00:24:47,190 But, um... 437 00:24:48,690 --> 00:24:49,940 He chose this. 438 00:24:50,030 --> 00:24:51,030 Yeah. 439 00:24:51,610 --> 00:24:52,950 This is what he wanted. 440 00:24:53,530 --> 00:24:55,070 More than he wanted me. 441 00:24:57,370 --> 00:24:59,200 What does that say? 442 00:25:01,500 --> 00:25:04,210 You know, I've, uh, I've helped a lot of people 443 00:25:05,880 --> 00:25:07,170 through divorces, 444 00:25:07,250 --> 00:25:10,380 and there's never any one reason why things go wrong. 445 00:25:11,220 --> 00:25:12,170 So... 446 00:25:13,550 --> 00:25:16,260 I think the best way through this is just, 447 00:25:17,010 --> 00:25:19,260 you know, open and honest communication. 448 00:25:19,350 --> 00:25:21,480 Well, that sounds a lot like Pastor Malcolm. 449 00:25:21,560 --> 00:25:23,640 Yeah. 450 00:25:24,140 --> 00:25:25,770 I wanted friend Malcolm. 451 00:25:27,940 --> 00:25:31,940 Friend Malcolm thinks Pastor Malcolm has pretty good insights. 452 00:25:33,950 --> 00:25:34,910 Okay. 453 00:25:40,370 --> 00:25:41,200 Hey. 454 00:25:41,790 --> 00:25:44,750 I looked everywhere for Mom's jewelry box. 455 00:25:44,830 --> 00:25:48,000 I couldn't find it, but I'm sure it'll turn up. 456 00:25:48,590 --> 00:25:50,130 Justin knows not to donate it. 457 00:25:51,510 --> 00:25:54,170 So, I thought 458 00:25:54,260 --> 00:25:57,180 you might like to keep this. 459 00:26:08,730 --> 00:26:09,980 Beautiful. 460 00:26:13,030 --> 00:26:15,240 - What was that? - Uh... 461 00:26:15,320 --> 00:26:18,070 Justin's in, like, full purge mode. 462 00:26:19,870 --> 00:26:21,620 - Yeah. - Mm-hmm. 463 00:26:26,870 --> 00:26:29,460 I moved all of Mom's stuff in here to sort through it, 464 00:26:29,540 --> 00:26:31,920 but I don't want your help if you guys are gonna fight. 465 00:26:32,000 --> 00:26:33,630 - We're not fighting. - Yeah. 466 00:26:33,710 --> 00:26:36,430 You know, Justin, the whole "Dad's good little boy" routine, 467 00:26:36,510 --> 00:26:38,890 - you know you're making us look bad? - I can't help it. 468 00:26:40,640 --> 00:26:43,430 This is the book that Mom used to teach me piano. 469 00:26:45,810 --> 00:26:47,640 I picked this out for her at the mall. 470 00:26:48,270 --> 00:26:50,060 She said it was so... 471 00:26:50,650 --> 00:26:51,820 California. 472 00:26:51,900 --> 00:26:53,530 Whatever that means. 473 00:26:55,280 --> 00:26:57,360 - She should've worn it more. - Yeah. 474 00:26:57,450 --> 00:26:59,570 - It's so her. - Yeah. 475 00:27:01,450 --> 00:27:05,330 All right, Justin, so, uh, what's the deal? What's your system? 476 00:27:05,410 --> 00:27:08,830 Anything that's a definite donate, goes to the left. 477 00:27:08,920 --> 00:27:11,840 Anything that's a definite keep, goes to the right. 478 00:27:12,420 --> 00:27:14,460 And the maybes go in the middle. 479 00:27:25,140 --> 00:27:28,270 Um, Merritt's outside. You are on Justin duty. 480 00:27:31,270 --> 00:27:33,110 I can't even look at him. 481 00:27:34,110 --> 00:27:35,570 Casey says he's trying. 482 00:27:36,780 --> 00:27:38,280 But it, it's too late. 483 00:27:39,280 --> 00:27:42,120 He doesn't think of anyone but himself. 484 00:27:42,780 --> 00:27:45,660 I-I shouldn't have to tell him how to be a good dad. 485 00:27:47,370 --> 00:27:48,910 I'm sorry. I... Sorry. 486 00:27:49,540 --> 00:27:51,670 He's just, he's, he's... 487 00:27:51,750 --> 00:27:53,250 He's acting so fake. 488 00:27:53,340 --> 00:27:55,050 No, please, say it. 489 00:27:57,710 --> 00:27:59,050 You are... 490 00:28:01,130 --> 00:28:02,390 nothing like that. 491 00:28:03,550 --> 00:28:04,640 You're... 492 00:28:05,720 --> 00:28:06,890 you're real. 493 00:28:07,980 --> 00:28:09,180 And... 494 00:28:10,940 --> 00:28:12,270 you're always yourself. 495 00:28:17,480 --> 00:28:20,570 Do you wanna go for a ride? I have a permit. 496 00:28:24,120 --> 00:28:25,910 Um, are you serious? 497 00:28:26,740 --> 00:28:27,910 Yeah. 498 00:28:28,000 --> 00:28:30,160 - You have a license. - I do. 499 00:28:30,250 --> 00:28:32,250 - I have a car. - Yes. 500 00:28:32,330 --> 00:28:33,630 Mm. 501 00:28:35,590 --> 00:28:38,050 - Come on. You wanna go? You wanna go? - All right. 502 00:28:38,130 --> 00:28:39,130 Let's go. Let's go. 503 00:30:40,040 --> 00:30:41,340 They're both asleep. 504 00:30:41,420 --> 00:30:43,130 Okay. Is Casey on her back? 505 00:30:43,710 --> 00:30:46,130 Uh... Yes, she's on her back. 506 00:30:46,220 --> 00:30:48,760 Hey, because she likes to roll over onto her stomach, 507 00:30:48,840 --> 00:30:51,310 and the pediatrician said that the number one... 508 00:30:55,350 --> 00:31:00,610 Okay, um, so that means we have 78 minutes before she's hungry again. 509 00:31:01,320 --> 00:31:02,150 What? 510 00:31:02,230 --> 00:31:04,400 My breastfeeding log is very accurate. 511 00:31:04,480 --> 00:31:07,280 We should make the most of these next 78 minutes. 512 00:31:10,530 --> 00:31:11,870 Mm. 513 00:31:12,450 --> 00:31:14,950 - I love this song. - Mm-hmm. 514 00:31:15,040 --> 00:31:17,750 - This sounds great in here, doesn't it? - Yeah. 515 00:31:18,670 --> 00:31:20,000 It's a little echoey. 516 00:31:20,710 --> 00:31:23,550 - I-I'm not complaining. No. - Mm-hmm. 517 00:31:24,300 --> 00:31:27,420 God bless Jenny and Malcolm for telling us about this place. 518 00:31:28,050 --> 00:31:29,130 It's just... 519 00:31:29,970 --> 00:31:31,390 so empty. 520 00:31:32,470 --> 00:31:34,430 Well, let's fill it up, then. 521 00:31:34,520 --> 00:31:36,560 Okay. 522 00:31:36,640 --> 00:31:39,060 Why do you think I bought us such a big house? 523 00:31:39,140 --> 00:31:39,980 Huh? 524 00:31:44,900 --> 00:31:49,030 Do you remember when you thought Conway Twitty was a cartoon character? 525 00:31:50,950 --> 00:31:52,280 - Take it back. - No. 526 00:31:52,370 --> 00:31:54,740 - I will drop you. I will... - No. No. 527 00:31:57,040 --> 00:31:59,210 Okay, fine. I admit it. 528 00:31:59,790 --> 00:32:01,170 Mm-hmm. 529 00:32:01,250 --> 00:32:03,500 You know more about music than I do. 530 00:32:04,630 --> 00:32:07,260 That means more to me than hearing you love me. 531 00:32:07,760 --> 00:32:08,670 Well, I do. 532 00:32:40,080 --> 00:32:45,130 You know, you can get pulled over for driving too slow. 533 00:32:45,210 --> 00:32:46,090 Right? 534 00:32:51,180 --> 00:32:53,220 Whoa. 535 00:32:53,300 --> 00:32:55,550 Oh. 536 00:33:22,750 --> 00:33:25,920 At least you can still count on David to stock the freezer with ice cream. 537 00:33:26,000 --> 00:33:27,210 Yes. 538 00:33:27,290 --> 00:33:29,630 I'm not sure what else he was going to feed them. 539 00:33:35,720 --> 00:33:38,680 I'm sorry. I didn't mean to keep you here so late. 540 00:33:38,760 --> 00:33:40,970 - I'm sure the kids are wondering... - No, no. 541 00:33:41,060 --> 00:33:42,940 - Uh-uh. - No, it's fine. 542 00:33:43,020 --> 00:33:45,230 Really. I'm fine. 543 00:33:46,150 --> 00:33:47,770 - You sure? Okay. - Yes. 544 00:33:47,860 --> 00:33:50,110 Pastor Malcolm was very helpful. 545 00:33:51,070 --> 00:33:52,530 So was my friend Malcolm. 546 00:34:00,700 --> 00:34:01,540 Whoa. 547 00:34:01,620 --> 00:34:03,120 Okay, learner's permit. 548 00:34:03,210 --> 00:34:04,620 Uh... 549 00:34:05,620 --> 00:34:06,630 You can't stop here. 550 00:34:07,330 --> 00:34:08,750 That's my dad. 551 00:34:10,300 --> 00:34:12,300 Coming out of my dad's place. 552 00:34:13,970 --> 00:34:17,050 Where my mom is birdnesting, or whatever. 553 00:34:18,970 --> 00:34:19,810 Hey, what's up? 554 00:34:19,890 --> 00:34:21,010 I'm in Lori's bed. 555 00:34:22,060 --> 00:34:24,480 - And you're freaking out. - Uh, yep, mm-hmm. 556 00:34:24,560 --> 00:34:27,650 I don't know, man, just being back in this house, Malc, like... 557 00:34:27,730 --> 00:34:29,900 The sheets, they smell like her. 558 00:34:31,440 --> 00:34:33,780 Yeah, well, that's, that's where she sleeps. 559 00:34:35,110 --> 00:34:36,490 I can't stay in this room. 560 00:34:36,570 --> 00:34:38,620 I can't do it. Hey, I'm gonna come over, okay? 561 00:34:38,700 --> 00:34:41,830 No. No, no, no. Uh, I'm not home. Um... 562 00:34:42,410 --> 00:34:46,750 Uh... You know what? I'll come to you. I'll be there in a few. 563 00:34:46,830 --> 00:34:47,790 All right. 564 00:34:57,800 --> 00:35:00,390 See, I-I knew something was going on between them. 565 00:35:00,470 --> 00:35:02,260 Your dad is doing the walk of shame. 566 00:35:02,350 --> 00:35:04,600 Okay, you don't know that that's what's on. 567 00:35:04,680 --> 00:35:06,560 - They could just be... - What? What? 568 00:35:06,640 --> 00:35:08,560 Spending time in my dad's bachelor pad? 569 00:35:08,650 --> 00:35:10,810 So much for my parents ever getting back together. 570 00:35:10,900 --> 00:35:13,780 Merritt, I asked my dad if he was seeing anyone, 571 00:35:13,860 --> 00:35:14,690 he said no. 572 00:35:15,400 --> 00:35:18,200 He's a pastor. He doesn't know how to do the walk of shame. 573 00:35:18,280 --> 00:35:19,530 Look. 574 00:35:19,620 --> 00:35:22,240 I know you see the world in this rosy way 575 00:35:22,330 --> 00:35:23,950 because of who your dad is, 576 00:35:24,040 --> 00:35:26,040 - but... - I'm not as innocent as you think. 577 00:35:26,580 --> 00:35:28,040 I just know my father, 578 00:35:28,120 --> 00:35:29,630 and he would never lie to me. 579 00:35:32,040 --> 00:35:33,340 Parents lie. 580 00:35:35,420 --> 00:35:36,760 They lie. 581 00:35:36,840 --> 00:35:38,380 All the time. 582 00:35:46,930 --> 00:35:49,390 I don't know, Malcolm. I-I chose the divorce. 583 00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:51,400 Right? Like, I chose to leave this house. 584 00:35:52,190 --> 00:35:54,730 I don't know, man, just being back here, like... 585 00:35:55,320 --> 00:35:56,490 I miss it. 586 00:35:57,650 --> 00:35:59,240 I miss it. I miss the kids. 587 00:36:00,200 --> 00:36:01,700 Is it possible I miss my wife? 588 00:36:04,330 --> 00:36:05,450 Ex-wife? 589 00:36:06,700 --> 00:36:08,660 Of course, it's possible. 590 00:36:08,750 --> 00:36:11,750 It's really hard to move forward without looking back. 591 00:36:12,250 --> 00:36:14,710 Maybe I'm just a "grass is always greener" kind of guy. 592 00:36:14,800 --> 00:36:15,630 Mm. 593 00:36:16,460 --> 00:36:19,380 You know, I lost it today at the church on this guy 594 00:36:19,970 --> 00:36:23,300 wanting to buy a cowboy belt buckle that Jenny bought me as a joke. 595 00:36:23,390 --> 00:36:25,100 That I've literally never worn. 596 00:36:25,180 --> 00:36:26,810 Totally chewed this poor guy out. 597 00:36:28,850 --> 00:36:30,690 Right? You mean, you politely told him no. 598 00:36:30,770 --> 00:36:33,440 Hey. I raised my voice. I'm a human being. 599 00:36:34,610 --> 00:36:36,230 Although, I did say please. 600 00:36:36,320 --> 00:36:37,530 Numerous times. 601 00:36:39,700 --> 00:36:43,450 I don't know. I think we both just need to find a way forward. 602 00:36:44,490 --> 00:36:47,040 I'm really sorry you're having a hard time. Truly. 603 00:36:48,250 --> 00:36:50,040 Guess I'm reaping what I sow, right? 604 00:36:52,170 --> 00:36:53,080 How is she? 605 00:36:53,830 --> 00:36:54,670 Lori. 606 00:36:54,750 --> 00:36:57,130 You're spending a lot of time with her, how's she doing? 607 00:36:57,210 --> 00:36:59,880 Uh, she's great. She's great. 608 00:37:04,430 --> 00:37:06,100 Hey, you know that, uh, 609 00:37:06,180 --> 00:37:08,680 the woman from your office, the accountant. 610 00:37:08,770 --> 00:37:09,850 - Sarah? - Yeah. 611 00:37:10,480 --> 00:37:11,310 Yeah. 612 00:37:11,390 --> 00:37:13,850 Wouldn't hurt to have a cup of coffee with her, right? 613 00:37:17,480 --> 00:37:19,650 Mm. 614 00:37:19,740 --> 00:37:22,240 - Oh. - Couldn't hurt anyone. 615 00:37:29,370 --> 00:37:31,710 - You're welcome. - Thank you. 616 00:37:41,170 --> 00:37:42,170 All right. 617 00:37:53,600 --> 00:37:55,690 Hey, Dad. We kept a few things. 618 00:37:55,770 --> 00:37:56,610 Hey. 619 00:37:58,860 --> 00:38:00,230 Oh, Pen. 620 00:38:00,940 --> 00:38:02,650 That looks fabulous on you. 621 00:38:02,740 --> 00:38:04,320 - Flora picked it out. - Wow. 622 00:38:05,360 --> 00:38:07,620 Um, but everything in the boxes, we can donate. 623 00:38:07,700 --> 00:38:09,990 I'm proud of you guys. Thank you. I'll take that. 624 00:38:10,580 --> 00:38:11,580 Hey, Miriam, 625 00:38:11,660 --> 00:38:14,160 my kid just brought in quite a haul for Grace Community. 626 00:38:14,250 --> 00:38:15,870 - Oh, yeah. - Mm-hmm. 627 00:38:15,960 --> 00:38:18,960 - What's the wager this year? - A steak dinner at Marlowe's. 628 00:38:19,040 --> 00:38:20,670 Uh, well, I like my odds, 629 00:38:20,750 --> 00:38:22,460 and I like my steak medium rare. 630 00:38:22,550 --> 00:38:24,970 - He's already gloating. - Uh-huh. 631 00:38:25,050 --> 00:38:26,760 Just please don't gloat as hard as Yousef. 632 00:38:26,840 --> 00:38:28,010 - Oh. - I don't gloat. 633 00:38:28,100 --> 00:38:29,430 I just glow. 634 00:38:29,510 --> 00:38:30,970 'Cause my people are so generous. 635 00:38:35,940 --> 00:38:36,940 Malcolm. 636 00:38:38,810 --> 00:38:40,110 - Hey. - Hi. 637 00:38:40,190 --> 00:38:41,020 Hey. 638 00:38:42,610 --> 00:38:43,610 - Hi, there. - Um, 639 00:38:43,690 --> 00:38:46,150 I just wanted to say thank you for last night. 640 00:38:46,240 --> 00:38:47,450 For talking me down. 641 00:38:47,530 --> 00:38:48,780 Of course. 642 00:38:50,370 --> 00:38:52,370 - Oh. Excuse me. - Go, go, go. 643 00:38:55,710 --> 00:38:57,580 Hey, buddy, thanks so much for coming by last night. 644 00:38:57,670 --> 00:38:59,750 Oh, of course. Yeah. 645 00:39:12,430 --> 00:39:13,270 Hi. 646 00:39:14,980 --> 00:39:17,270 I went through my room. I'm gonna donate this stuff. 647 00:39:17,350 --> 00:39:19,020 Oh. Thank you, Flora. 648 00:39:19,650 --> 00:39:20,900 - Dad. - Mm. 649 00:39:22,320 --> 00:39:25,400 I think Mom would want you to put yourself out there. 650 00:39:26,820 --> 00:39:27,820 Thanks, sweetie. 651 00:39:29,240 --> 00:39:30,570 And I'm keeping her car. 652 00:39:30,660 --> 00:39:32,700 It's yours. 653 00:39:33,450 --> 00:39:34,330 Virginia! 654 00:39:35,250 --> 00:39:37,210 Okay, so this whole house swap thing... 655 00:39:37,290 --> 00:39:38,790 - Yeah. - It doesn't work. 656 00:39:39,370 --> 00:39:42,210 It's not my home anymore, Lori. I have a home. 657 00:39:42,290 --> 00:39:45,090 And I'm starting a new life and they need to be there to be a part of it. 658 00:39:45,170 --> 00:39:46,050 I agree. 659 00:39:47,220 --> 00:39:50,010 - Okay. Okay, good. - Yeah. Yeah. 660 00:39:56,060 --> 00:39:58,310 I left a little surprise at the house for you. 661 00:39:59,140 --> 00:40:00,850 - I hate surprises. - No, you don't. 662 00:40:00,940 --> 00:40:03,440 You say you hate them, but you secretly love them. 663 00:40:04,940 --> 00:40:06,190 Yeah. 664 00:40:18,830 --> 00:40:20,540 How's that look? Good? 665 00:40:23,040 --> 00:40:24,170 How's it look? 666 00:40:26,210 --> 00:40:27,670 Oink, oink. 667 00:40:30,430 --> 00:40:31,640 Me. 668 00:40:31,720 --> 00:40:32,890 It's perfect. 669 00:40:37,770 --> 00:40:38,730 Thanks. 670 00:40:39,390 --> 00:40:40,230 Thank you. 671 00:40:47,230 --> 00:40:48,900 Good job. Good job. 672 00:40:48,990 --> 00:40:52,280 So, you're saying we have to literally pack and unpack every other weekend? 673 00:40:52,360 --> 00:40:54,030 Yeah. That is what I'm literally saying. 674 00:40:54,830 --> 00:40:57,410 And like everything in life, you will get used to it. 675 00:40:57,490 --> 00:40:58,330 Okay. 676 00:40:58,410 --> 00:41:00,040 Also, you're gonna start tonight. 677 00:41:00,120 --> 00:41:01,750 Screw the Scandinavians. 678 00:41:01,830 --> 00:41:03,670 - Tonight? - How about right now? 679 00:41:03,750 --> 00:41:07,460 Come on. We could hit up IKEA, Target, wherever you guys wanna go. 680 00:41:07,550 --> 00:41:09,050 You get to pick out your beds. 681 00:41:09,130 --> 00:41:10,340 Decorate your own rooms. 682 00:41:10,420 --> 00:41:12,970 Seriously, I want you guys to make this place feel like your own. 683 00:41:13,050 --> 00:41:13,890 Okay? 684 00:41:15,100 --> 00:41:15,930 What? 685 00:41:16,010 --> 00:41:18,470 Did you think I was gonna let them sleep on an air mattress? 686 00:41:18,560 --> 00:41:21,060 I... No, no. No. I... 687 00:41:21,140 --> 00:41:23,150 It's... I think it's a great idea. Okay. 688 00:41:23,230 --> 00:41:25,520 Also, I can't wait for you to see that pool, 689 00:41:25,610 --> 00:41:26,940 so relaxing. 690 00:41:27,020 --> 00:41:28,780 Lovely neighbors, too. 691 00:41:29,360 --> 00:41:30,740 - Bye, Mom. - Bye. 692 00:41:30,820 --> 00:41:31,740 Bye. 693 00:41:31,820 --> 00:41:32,990 - Bye. - Bye. 694 00:41:34,280 --> 00:41:37,200 Bye. Bye, guys. 695 00:42:52,070 --> 00:42:56,570 So, uh, I have a math test Monday. So, I gotta go study. 696 00:42:56,660 --> 00:42:58,490 Yeah, no worries, I got the dishes. 697 00:42:59,740 --> 00:43:01,790 - Hey, I love you. - Okay. 698 00:43:02,700 --> 00:43:04,870 - Mm. Love you so much. - I love you, too. 699 00:43:05,870 --> 00:43:06,710 Bye. 700 00:43:12,840 --> 00:43:14,010 Hey, I'm sorry. Okay. 701 00:43:15,220 --> 00:43:16,090 For what? 702 00:43:18,720 --> 00:43:19,760 For all of it. 703 00:43:21,140 --> 00:43:22,560 I just want us to be... 704 00:43:25,930 --> 00:43:28,650 I want us to be good, Merritt, as a family. 705 00:43:30,480 --> 00:43:31,610 What can I do? 706 00:43:37,400 --> 00:43:38,320 What? 707 00:43:40,780 --> 00:43:43,490 If you want things to get better, talk to your buddy Malcolm. 708 00:43:46,790 --> 00:43:48,540 Malcolm and Mom are hooking up.